Having been in & left an abusive relationship, both phsycially & emotionally... Love without hurt is the ONLY thing, that got through to my H, I've heard the same from other spouses of abusers.

Until the abuser can be compassionate with himself & those he loves.. NMMNG principals are irrelevant, IMHO.


Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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