Okay, so I have been thinking a lot lately about setting goals, and how to go about doing this realistically with an MLCer. One goal I have thought of is to watch a TV show (or DVD) together which we have not done since pre-bomb sometime. I am tossing the idea around in my mind of asking him about it tonight since one of our common interest shows is starting back up today. However, I am not sure I have lowered my expectations to zero enough to do so. The old adage "it doesn't hurt to ask" doesn't apply here as it might very well hurt if he says no.

I guess we will see where I am a few hours from now. . . I really don't want to push him away at all but he has been so much friendlier and seems more relaxed lately. Maybe I should just leave well enough alone for now and postpone it for another time.


"Endurance is a testament of love."

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