Sure, I wasnt going to bother posting this till there was a little more to tell, but since I am obviously an immature man and juvenile and take part in highschoolish game playing, I'll be happy to prove it. She threw out the "sex card." Not once but 3 times in the course of a couple days. This was spot-on, btw :
Quote:
..."I don't want to lead you on here."
she will of course answer..
"no, I understand. This is because I want to do it"
And to top it off "so-n-so" who taught maybe he could still play his hand has obviously been brushed off and is being ignored.
How was this accomplished? By playing the game of love.
My wife came home a day early from her business trip (work training) after calling several times everynight. On the night she came back, I was having an end of summer bbq for my close friends. And yes, "Jolene" was there. And yes, "Jolene's kids" were there. And for all this concern about the children, it didnt seem at all like they felt like pawns as they traded mp3s, hanging out and texting their boyfriends and the boys seemed quite happy playing madden 10 on the playstation 3. Quite unaffected and unaware.
I fully expected W to lock herself in the backroom or cause a scene in front of my friends, however, within an hour of 'socially interacting' with company, W felt it necessary to mark her "territory." And later that night was quite adamant about wanting to work on the lost physical connection a little more. Now this is my wife who I was half convinced was some witchcraft spell casting lesbian friend alien from hell and here she is contorting her body in all different directions trying to get her g-spot hit.
I had done nothing other than some flirting and getting acquainted with members of the other sex. Changed my attitude and direction in life, noticeably. And oh, I put my foot down hard as soon as it appeared there was some sort of threat to my marriage.
The next day I fully expected a relationship talk. And it came. Synopsis:
W: What do you want from me? M: Nothing. I would just like to have a wife that is happy to be married to me.
The past week has been pretty unique compared to the past couple of years. I think it is important to go into some of this later.
What to make of this? Jealousy? Fear of Loss? Maybe even married people like to play games of attraction sometimes to know they can still attract their partners? IDK. I wasn't going to post about this quite yet. I would have liked to see how the next few weeks pan out and had more time to detail about the interactions and my responses.
But since this is all the sign of an emotionally unhealthy mind, I hope what you are doing is working for y'all.
