Man Dave, Sounds like we are in the same boat... I dont understand it at all. What do they think they will gain? My W basically get all my money right now... and still seems to have trouble making ends meet(though I suspect shes stockpiling)she is real good with money, and would live off spam just to save a few bucks...whats her plan after the D when she only gets the child support? Im afraid she may have something or someone else lined up... but I hope thats just paranoia on my part. They both seem to have this everythings great attitude, never mind what theyve done to their families, and how it will effect everyone, especially the kids for the rest of their lives. Yours I think will have a serious wake up call when reality sets in. Maybe the seperation of all the goods and finances will work in your favor. My W was writing down her list of wants the other nite, and seemed unaffected by it(I know because we were in a texting conversation then)She told me she was past the hurt a long time ago. I dont really believe that, cause Ive seen it in her a few times. Then theres this new issue of contact that shes let us have, shes talking to me all the time now thru the day and up until bedtime. Not to mention shes letting me see my daughter more... as it stands this coming wekend Im suppose to get her Fri-Sun. When we talk its always nice, like good old friends... but we have a no R talk rule. What do you think I should do? Ive made my intentions clear, and she said she just dont feel that way anymore... I think if she can see the me that she initially fell for then maybe I can spark it again... this crap is so frustrating! Isnt it crazy how much our sitch's have in common? Wish I had something more to help you brother, but Im kinda at a loss right now. As always your in my thoughts and prayers. B.
