me and my wife went through something simalar a few tears ago. i thought i was missing out on life with all responsiblities of being a new father. i started flirting with another woman. that lasted a few months before i started to relize what i had at home. patience is the key.
when my wife stopped caring about the other girl i saw her as a completely different person and our marriage got better for the next five years.
stay strong. goodluck
me 27 w 26 d7 s5 t17 m7 moved to tx from va 02/25/09 sold home in va and moved 03/23/09 bomb 04/16/09 w&kids in va me in tx working