If you are looking for something positive, this was just posted by robx. There is always hope.
Update on my situation: the other day my wife called me at work, told me she would pick up the kids from school because she was getting off work early and had the time to do it and and asked if she could join us for supper, I said that was fine and I appreciated her help. I came home and was surprised to open the door to the smell of an incredible home cooked meal and I will tell you that hasn't happened in our home for a very long time. I had the children say grace and to include "thanking mommy" for this wonderful supper. I thanked her as well for the great supper. I was especially hungry and smelling that food was incredible and she mentioned a few times she made things a special way because she knew I liked such & such, etc. We had a great evening & night together with great conversation without any relationship talk, just enjoying our time together. We went out for some icecream later and a walk, september is just beautiful, it's like a second summer, I couldn't have pictured a better day with the way it turned out.
I wish every other db'er out there, the same results. They are obtainable through hard work, determination and knowing how to set goals without focusing on the obstacles along the way.
