snodderly,

Surprise, surprise. H did reply the next day: No, he hasn't spoken to a L, but will to get the basics (???!!!) and then we can meet next week.

I gave him 4 timeslots next week that I'm available to meet. He said he'll let me know.

THEN... he calls the next day to get my address. When I asked why, he said it was so he can have my new TV delivered. (Mine has been having problems for months.) An even bigger, nicer one than the one being replaced. So instead of meeting with an L, he was out shopping for me.

I don't get it.

I know he spent a night out with the H's of my friends who I was out with on the same night (our old close group of friends). I was thinking about how the other H's would all be going home that night to their families, and how that made H feel.

Really looking forward to talking with H. Want to ask him what it is that he's thinking. Not sure I'll get an honest answer.