So I guess the envelope from your lawyer wasn't really bad news then. It is interesting that your H has not been in touch with them about the D. Wonder how the skank would feel about that?
Maybe along with being a projection, his letter was written as a way for him to convince himself why he wanted the D. Who really knows, though.
Even though you have had all this stuff thrown at you, you seem to be doing well and keeping positive. I need to remind myself frequently to replace that fear with faith, too.
How are things going today? I am guessing your H STILL has not brought up the letter he wrote?