Originally Posted By: dday101798

In reading your sitch and XW's demeaner, I think not. I thought that my XW attending the manditory parenting through divorce session would be an eye opener for my X. Not only did I think it would open her eyes to how this is impacting our kids, but give her some insight on why I sometimes act and react they way I do as I come from a D'd household. Much to my astonishment, it did nothing, zero impact. Quite dissapointing.


I'm sure this had some impact. It was probably filed way back in the sub-conscious somewhere to be faced at another time and in small doses. It's all about planting a seed, backing off and being patient. There are no instant results.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08