Im not sure why H is visiting tomorrow night, he is staying the night which is unusual as he has practically run for the hills every time its been suggested.
I know he is coming to pick up some important things, his new bank cards, medication from docs, and a few other bits, and then the following day he has a evening meetup up planned.
I have now been doing NC except a couple of important emails and txts, as we have an older son it hasnt been that hard. In the first few weeks before I got stuck into NC I used to tease him about having a date with "flora the floosie" but I didnt think there was anyone and he always replied it would take a long time before that happened. But I have a niggling suspicion there is someone.
Now there could be several reasons why he wants to see me, but I need a good calm DB'ing answer should he hit me with the OW scenario. Bearing in mind hes gonna think cos I always told him I would that his credentials are seriously going to be in danger, so one might say would he ask to stay the night if he was going to drop a bomb that he thought would cause danger to his credentials lol! Anyway, so far all I have come up with is
"Ok Im not surprised but of course that is your perogative to choose to be with someone else"
So if that isnt what I need to be saying can anyone give me a better line! I am to just stay as calm as a cucumber and carry on looking like it doesnt really matter Im moving on..
New underwear is ready for the airer and cute little nightdress to say goodnight in, that and two fabulous drop dead outfits to be seen in, bearing in mind he hasnt seen me for four weeks now and I have dropped another dress size since then and everyone else is now starting to really notice..
Anyway over to you folks!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
