Do you really think the PC is going to have any affect on anything?
In reading your sitch and XW's demeaner, I think not. I thought that my XW attending the manditory parenting through divorce session would be an eye opener for my X. Not only did I think it would open her eyes to how this is impacting our kids, but give her some insight on why I sometimes act and react they way I do as I come from a D'd household. Much to my astonishment, it did nothing, zero impact. Quite dissapointing.
On the forgiveness, yes it is a gift you give yourself. The reasons I am angered and flustered with XW and OM now is not them being together, they can have each other. The b/s they put the kids through, that's another story and I don't know how to deal with it at this time.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
