Based upon what spouse said,the key being,she did everything for everyone....Knowing mistakes I made to date.When,if we talk or text,short sweet,got it.Wait for her and I know why she's not offering much,withdrawling and she knows I was passing info to counselor...Do I just let it go?Tell her not doing it,won't do it?
I'm not going to do it anymore,I'm the one that got thrown under a bus.Don't trust counselor now myself.
The thing that makes me happiest is the kids.That's what I'm trying to wrap my head around,how to be with them more.
Do I just wait for MLC to come to me and offer to take over,at somepoint she's going to go to replay and want to live and do.You think? She really never did.We both worked hard and didn't give much time for ourselves.
Last nite got a lot better for D and I,I told her my concerns.And we laughed and she knows I care.
Like Jack said when I have kids parent my way.At somepoint will MLC realize not questioning her,just don't want kids getting away with murder or hurt.
Need an outline please...does that make sense.
I have been reading threads and I think she asked me to leave early in the Anger process. So I haven't found anything that quite matches my situation.
I gave a lot of information to this point. I really just want to keep things short and sweet. I am coachable. I can stay sane if I can see and parent and have fun with kids.
