ML is a personal decision. For me, it kept H close and reminded him of one of the pretty damn good aspects of our marriage, if I may be so honest. Other days, I may have to admit he was getting his cake and eating it too. But ultimately, our sex life was always pretty good to great. Very compatible there. Frankly, I know it’s one of the things on the list of “reasons not to leave Stronger”. So, pro’s and con’s. And really, the whole freaking thing is going to be crazy and you aren’t ever going to know what’s coming next with them. Sometimes you will just think WTH? Other times you’ll be upset, and sometimes, you will even be able to laugh. Hang in there.