I do find myself quite a bit budding my two cents in on folks who are not having the best go of things in their R and they think leaving is the best option. Mainly M'd folk with kids.

Then only intervention I can think of where I advised someone to be cautious about dating someone and how interested they should be is my cousin I live with who is/was dating a guy who is "sepreated" yet does not respond to calls/texts in a timely fashion (sometimes for days) and often speaks in code. When I met him, we were all going to go get inked, but the shop was too busy. In the car and afterward, I took note to how attentive he was to make sure nothing in the car was disturbed and picking my cousins hair off the seat as well as being overly protective of not displaying his left hand. My obvious observation to her was, tell him to go home to hiw W and stay there. frown


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11