Ups and Downs

[Energizer Bunny]

You're right. I need to do a better job with boundaries.

I haven't really done anything here because my only recourse would be to tell her that if she..., I would leave/ask her to leave. Well, I don't want to leave my home. I didn't want her to either. So that has been a struggle for me. In addition, she has wanted to be apart so it would be more like a reward than a consequence at this point. Another BIG thing is that one of the major themes i nher revolving issues is that I have tried to control her. If I told her that if she...I would... she would see this as controlling and feel justified in her fog.

I'll have to put some thought to this. I kind of want her to go this week though.