[quote=C-Bart] Do something that is the opposite of what you were thinking of doing.
Buying gifts > don't buy anything for them. Call them regularly > don't call them at all, in fact go silent for 3-4 weeks if possible, I mean really dark. Sit at home & wait for them > go out and date other people
I think we all agree that sitting at home and waiting for them is not what to do, but this site is filled with examples of people GAL and piquing their spouse's interest without going as far as dating other people. It's a continuum, not "either or"
People who don't advocate dating are NOT saying stay home and wait for them. People who don't advocate everything you say are not saying just give up. There seems to be a propensity in your comments to take any disagreement and extrapolate it into the most extreme opposite of what you said, when that was neither said or implied.
