So last night was just plain odd, but it certainly fits the pattern. We had a pleasent evening, even sitting next to eachother on the couch to watch some lame TV show. Not much was said, but her toes were touching my leg the whole time. Then before she went to her room to go to sleep, she kissed me good night, that kissed morphed into a little bit deeper and longer one. Then, the ML discussion came up. Grab the 2x4 and tell me NOT to have that discussion again, but I can't help it. She says "no it will muddy the waters" - I retort - "how much more muddy can it get?" Anyways, she goes on to say that she didn't want to ML tonight but she would think about it for the future.
For others in the forum, what's the general thought on this? If the WAW wants to ML, do you? Even if it may be meaningless to them and it is just to satisfy a physical need? Or do you push back? I dont know if it will come up again, but I want to make sure I am prepared in case it does...
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
