My D pretended she didnt even listen and completely detached from the time and place. It took the C 6 months before she said the words even that me and her dad were separating. She is trying till this day, to ignore the actual facts and holds on to the idea of our life together.
Your kids are older. I think you will get reactions from them but they need time to process the news. Stay strong, they will need you. xxx K
