But with every text, every point of contact about what is going on with your Daughter while she is in your care, You are sending the signal to your wife that you can't handle things.
The only thing you HAVE to do right now is inform her of the decision YOU made to the incident.
IF she is MLC, she cannot handle herself right now, let alone be a responsible parent.
You gotta find a way to be the parent. She has enough buddys.
This is tough to do, and although we can offer advice, it is up to YOU to get control of this.
I agree with Cat, after the second time, things are NON-NEGOTIABLE.
