SS. I saw your sitch and couldn't believe it. I have simlar...W and BFF are both asking for D's. Within 30 days of eachother. I wish the best of luck. I am glad you have Gima for support. My BFF thinks my W flipped his so he is going through some bitterness. Won't talk with me any longer.
This BFF D thing seems so rediculous, like school girls planning a double date or a trip the mall.
I recently read a book called Hold on to your Nuts. It was great. It is similar to the advise you get here. I would recommend it as it is a fast read and in most sitch applicable at some level.
