wow. your wife sounds like she might come around. and you're doing a great job playing it cool. expect a backlash; she's likely to step away from the way she was tonight.
let it all be on her.
i love your journaling, by the way. you have a great ear for dialogue. good narrative structure too. are you a writer or have you considered writing anything?
me 30 WAW 30 M 8 yrs T 9.5 yrs
3 cats 9,6,6
W left 5/31/09 W stopped most contact 06/26/09 W filed 7/22/09 (haven't been served)