"Forgot to tell you this morning, that I am going out tonight".
H's response "OK, what time do you think you will be home".
My reply: Around 10ish.
The thing I find funny is that I no longer ask him when he will be home, if he is coming home or anything to do with time constraints (that is my 180). The shift is that he always now asks me that question, the very question he did not like to be asked.
Now I have committed to going out I am looking forward to it, I always like the dinner and girly chit chat after the movie the best, the movie we are seeing is not one I particularly wanted to see but it is a GAL activity all the same.