Hi Future! Found you! I think that you have a really good chance here. But realize that you have gotten where you are by doing what works, dont stop now!

I understand what your saying about letting her off the hook, maybe you could let your actions show you that you can forgive her... after all, would you be allowing a relationship to grow between the two of you if you werent willing to forgive her? If it were to come up later, after a reconciliation, maybe it would be ok to tell her that you forgive her, but now I think that it may disrupt her building respect for you.

I think that if you can afford it now would be a good time to call a DB coach.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...