He is still thinking about it. He's irritated at the last minute'ness of it. He is supposed to jam Friday night and doesn't want to cancel with such short notice. :|
He wanted to know why I was so gung-ho on it. And then said "So the landlord wants to know if you want to buy the house? What do you think is going to happen? That we're going to go to this and then you'll move right back in? I can't see that happening."
I said that I was open to whatever, but no, I didn't think that we'd leave Sunday and I'd be moving back Monday. But if we're headed towards working towards reconciling, I'm sure the landlord would give me a few months to work on things; plus the house could still be put on the market in the meantime.
(I have to admit-- with how I feel right now, I don't want to risk not buying the house. But I feel like I need to at least give retro a chance. If it doesn't work, well, then, nothing would, right?)
He was very huffy and puffy about the whole thing. Asked if we could just go Saturday morning and skip Friday.... for a jam session. I am kinda ticked at the attitude. When you really love someone, three days is nothing. Picking a jam session over attempting to save your marriage.... well, that would say a lot.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
