Just wanted to say that I am glad to hear that you are making a list of requirements. I think this is a nesseccary thing so that you can see where you want to be and have something to hold onto if/when things get tough.

Hang in there girl...you have got strength that you are not aware of yet. I have confidence in you to make the right choice at the right time.

Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09