Your fencing story is just way too funny! LOL That poor man, he must have been quite embarrassed. hehehe
I too share that same paranoia about Rs. Yet, view it as another type of fear to concur. Hopefully next time round it will be with someone who is more open & honest & not so afraid & guilt ridden.
Mishka is right in all she said. You are young, time will heal the wounds.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)