She may be a really good person deep down inside, most MLC'ers are, or else we probably wouldn't have married them.

I am going to say this for the last time.

You are perpetuating the problems by engaging her in these conversations.

She does not see you as the hero coming in to fix it all, instead you are a pest and a nuisance.

Now stop.

Breathe.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.