Part 2,MLC called ripped me good.Got really mad when I said,I understand sorry you feel that way,"said don't manipulate and play head games,you're a liar,kids want and respect me,because I was there for them you weren't."

Asked how to get them to do things for themselves,"she said she puts her foot down,stops what she's doing so they're happy." Not in awhile has she.But,she has done too much for all of us.

Said quit texting,can't believe grounded D for texting me and lying to her.

Said why "I think they're going to take kids is a very real concern of mine.I know you have forwarded emails and faxes to the counselor and you have the wrong diagnosis."

Said,"I need to focus on me and find what makes me happy,because no one but MLC could make me happy." And she isn't going to anymore. That's true,I really looked forward every day to being with her.

"She's done,she did everything.I never listened,I always talked,done helping me with kids,I need to build my own relationship."

"I've backed you up in this more than anyone and more than before."

I asked if I could be around more,help with the kids or be here in two wks. She told me to text her when we go to counselors so we could go together and she'd me Saturday at son's game.

I have never in my life heard her so angry.

Well I got caught in a lot of the DON'T DO's,wish I found DB sooner.

Well now I know why counselor nvr called me back, I told her I'm going to go to another counselor and those things I forwarded was so they could tell me how to make her happy.

I folded on everything,didn't stand up for myself on anything,I know my voice cracked because I really wanted to stand up for myself and she sure caught me off guard.

Well I think I know now,make myself happy,where have I heard that before and stay the heck out of the way.

As usual learn things too late.

So what now? Month 2 of the Anger. Do MLC's eventually forget about the stuff at the beginning of this,if I quit now?

I am so dropping those counselors,that's twice now.

But wife in all this was still sane enough to know what D was upto and to ask me and respect me.