I am posting in two spots so from now on I will post under newcomers. Please read there because I really need your continued support. I have stopped all R talks. As I have posted under the other forum, he is leaving this weekend to see the OW. He says he is working, but I know he will see her too. This is making me sick on one hand and on the other I feel he is not worth my efforts. I try to keep the end goal in mind, however I feel like such an idiot because when I call him on it, he just says he is done with me and I can't tell him what to do, but then he goes and does nice things like bring me drinks from our favorite fast food joint, has coffee with me in the morning and eats dinner with us as a family. He still lives at home and when I tell him to leave, that I am giving him his out he says no that this is his house and he paid for it so he is not leaving. It is just killing me to do the DB techniques knowing he is seeing her this weekend.
