Posting the same long posts (cutting and pasting) over again makes it very hard to follow your thread... I know that you want to bump it up so that it does not get lost in the flow, but you can do the same thing by posting a small note or update.
Have you thought about GALing?
M- 11 y H- 40 Me- 41 D (1st M) 19 S (1st M) 17 First EA (w/OOW)discovered 2000 Third EA (w/OOW & phone) discovered 02/06 SSM (total) 3 1/2 years