This evening was very interesting for me. My W started to ask questions about Retrovaille for the very first time. She wanted to learn more about the logistics of the event,of course being very coy about everything. This is the very first time she acknowledged our registration. My W was also very talkative this evening, even taking a 4-second "loving gaze" at me. I don't think she realized what she was doing.
This morning I was invited to the Gator game by my W. I initially declined b/c of a prior commitment, but I called during lunchtime to say "my plans changed...I'll go if the ticket is still available." My W seemed happy about it but suggested that I go to the fundraising golf event instead since I paid a $130 entry fee. She mentioned that there will more Gator games for me to attend. I simply agreed with her.
Who knows...maybe Sara's and Sandi's advice is starting to pay off for me. I have been very lighthearted and fun the last several weeks focusing most of my energy towards the kids. It's not over till it's over.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009
