I did not acknoledge our anniversary at all tonite. She got home and I was with the kids as usual. We were friendly to each other and I had a great time with my daughters as usual. I was happy, confident and felt good too. I asked her if she had the time to look at the website that I sent her(children in the middle online class) and she said no. She made a few excuses about why she did'nt.


I told my daughters I was leaving as they sat down for dinner and D2 had spaghetti sauce all over her face. I told her, "dont get sauce on my clothes. I dont have time to go change my clothes." in a playfull voice. My D7 then asks, "why,where are you going?" I told her I was meeting someone for dinner. She asks who and I said "just someone" all of this was with wife in the same room. I then said bye and my wife once again let out a nice loud "byyye". So I did not have to tell my wife that I am done with her but I think my actions and tone spelled it out clear enough. Any comments guys or girls?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final