does anybody have any experience with their spouse totally dropping all contact with them? does anybody do this that isn't mentally ill? we don't have kids but still have tax, insurance issues to discuss. . .

it's just so insane, and it's killing me having no idea what she's thinking.

me 30
WAW 30
M 8 yrs
T 9.5 yrs

3 cats 9,6,6


W left 5/31/09
W stopped most contact 06/26/09
W filed 7/22/09
(haven't been served)