LOL -"Mr Glib" Well, I asked him if he would think about it. The biggest problem is I can't reach retro to find out if they actually have space. I am just sick to my stomach waiting! I have emailed and left 2 voice mails today and haven't heard back.
I called H and said "You know how neither one of us is sure what to do with the other? Well, I think retro would give us much needed clarity; maybe we'd both decide we don't want to be married once it's over. I don't even know. I don't think I should be making big financial decisions without trying this and the next weekend won't be til next April. I can't wait that long." He was like "Geez, this is really short notice...I don't know. When is it?...I don't know...." I said that 3 days out of a whole life was nothing to 'sacrifice' and especially when it comes to something as important as a long term relationship.
I told him I just wanted him to think about it and that I wasn't even sure if we could get in; he said that he would think about it and that he wanted me to find out if we could get in while he thinks.
I feel like a cat on a hot tin roof. I wish I could just talk to a real person and find out if they have space. The waiting is torture since it starts the day after tomorrow!!!! And I feel like H needs as much notice as humanly possible at this point. I'm praying like mad that he says 'yes' and that there's room.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
