Steering many prayers your way! Trust in the Lord my dear. He wishes for you to be nearer to Him now. Your comfort, your strength, your protection comes from Him as you know. You love Him with steadfastness and His perfect love will be poured out upon you and your family.
It is natural to feel like being anything but sorry for Dan. Natural ...but wrong. He is adrift and has been for too long. I will be praying diligently that he will begin to act wisely and be receptive fully to God's grace which he is no doubt feeling.
Seek His face dear BobbiJo. Feel Jesus' embrace and His everlasting love.