You said: "My H has never been into oral (he was into taking but never giving in that aspect) and as for any other kind of 'play', he just does not innitiate and I can't handle more rejection... so we are at am impasse."
Does he understand how selfish he is being? Do YOU understand?
Sorry for being blunt. But if you both put this type of limitation on your own sexual fulfillment and his participation (or lack thereof) ... this truly is an impasse.
This isn't a matter of being "into" it (although that certainly helps). It's a matter of being a loving partner.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R
