No, I don't agree with dating while you are married. I think the swagger/mojo/confidence/groove/vibe/attitude that you give off is paramount and you can't get there with detaching. You can create lot's of mystery that is healthy, moral and ethical. You have to get to place in your mind that you don't need your WAS to go forward, you want them but you will thrive regardless. So it is a mindset. I understand what RobX is saying, I see the value in it. You would have to decide what dating is vs just hanging out. You would need boundaries that were transparent to be comfortable to do it if you wanted.
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M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
