Don't want to hijack the thread, but I know the answer, and I've been working on that. And I will keep working on that to draw her to a point of wanting to work on/discuss the M.
So, I will continue to -open up to her to allow her into all areas of my life -flirt -be confident and strong -maintain a PMA -be a leader in our M -listen to her, really listen
Late in the day after a lot of meetings. Am I missing anything (sure I am)?
