I've started posting again because I need support in the 'GAL' part of DB'ing. I have no hope that the divorce won't happen but I do have hope that I can turn my own life around.

So, I'm posting my own trials and I will include occasional 'events' with STBX only to get others insights into what goes on.

Jack once said "you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved". Well I did stay stuck in that hole longer than necessary. I pissed off a bunch of people and dug a deeper hole of despair for myself.

I'm done flogging myself. Now I'm working on my life.


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