What's different? I'll tell you.....you are. You aren't the lonely, depressed, sad woman who was pining away for him in the beginning. You are now strong and confident, handling your own life and that of your kids without his interference. He now has no one in his life and probably realizes how insignificant he is in the grand scheme of things. He's not needed and that freaks him out.
Kissak, my XH is constantly dropping hints and questions to me about someone he saw me with a while ago. I let him think what he wants. It's interesting that he would care since he's the one that left and has been living with his GF ever since. Men are stupid! They want things tied up in a nice, tidy little bow in the order they want it.
IGNORE HIM!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!