I think it is great that your daughter is so caring about everyone. It is unfortunate that your son's real dad has not cleaned himself up after all these years to be the father he should be when your son needs a father the most in his life. I don't know how much your current H feels towards your son since it is not his own blood. That cannot be easy for a young man growing into a harsh world. He really needs guidance and a strong father figure. Kevin
Kevin, this boy has a father. The wayward hubby. He has been raised by him. I hope "blood" does not mean that much. I certainly know it would hurt my adopted cousin to know that she is different b/c she is not blood relatives....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
