well, last night I took my kids to my H...Tuesdays he gets them for a few hours. He was at my parents house helping my dad with a fridge for the house....Thankfully my parents and him get along fine...I took the kids there and stayed a few and then told him I was leaving. Said I needed to go run a few errands. After I left, he texted me and said "are you in a hurry to go see your boyfriend?".

??? Ok, I dont have a boyfriend. We all know that. I replyed to him "yea, and Im meeting him at the grocery store!" Then I texted him and said it wouldnt matter to him if I had a boyfriend or not. He replyed "you dont know that". SO then I couldnt resist, I asked "would it bother you if i did". He said "yes".

Then he brought the kids home later and he mentioned that again...I asked him why it would bother him and he said "I dont know" His favorite phrase.

Ok, I know why It would bother me for him to have a girlfriend, but why should it bother him for me to have a boyfriend if he doesnt want to be with me.....

THere was a time in the beginning of our separation that he said he thought it would be great if I had a boyfriend and he would like to see me happy with someone and it wouldnt bother him abit!

What's different now?

Last edited by kissak; 09/16/09 07:43 PM.
Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10