Future, this is exactly my problem. When I last talked to a DB coach he told me to drop the rope. He suggested that I start initiating divorce talk. Like splitting property,talking about custody etc. I did some of that and it had a small effect. She became happier but maybe because she WANTS me to move on. Or she thinks she does. The I asked him if I should stop doing the acts of service. He said, "only if you want to stop Divorce Busting." So, I have been trying to add a little AOS here and there to show the door is open.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
