I am absolutely stumped when it comes to deciding where to move with my kids and where they should go to school and what path I should take for myself (career-wise etc)...nothing feels right or clear.
I need to start moving and all I want to do is stay still.
I'm also PMSing, feeling a bit down and H comes back in a couple of days...then my kids go to him one day and then we spend a whole day together as a family for S6's bday.
Interesting that you bring this up right now cuz I'm grappling with similar issues. I find myself going in circles on planning about where to live, etc. because I can't seem to not factor in all the what if we reconcile issues. I end up for weeks now doing nothing. I need to focus on the ideal end-state assuming no reconciliation. So what does one year from now look like for you? Work from home situation in good school district with important amenities nearby and a support network nearby? Simple lifestyle, low maintenance situation to focus on you, kids and work? Now what's the plan. You already know all this stuff...you just need me to come over and kick you in the a$$ to get you going....LOL!!
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
