Future, what do you think I have been doing for the last 4 or 5 months? We dont live together right now but everytime I see her I smell good I have new clothes and I tell her I have plans. It has not worked! Telling her "I have plans" is too weak for her. I need to tell her, "you are no good for me anymore and I have had it with you." I am fully ready for divorce at this point. I even called my lawyer today to see if there is any progress on getting another mediation date. No answer from lawyer though. I still want my marriage to be saved but I need to be "ok" with either outcome - divorce or reconcile.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final