What should I do Red? Should I go as friends? That's all I'm looking for....all of my female friends are M and don't go out and I'm sick of getting turned down.
Harpo's advice is good. Read it again. There's nothing wrong with going out as friends. You should be taking care of you and your kids right now. But I think there are watch outs. First, Make sure you're ready for it emotionally. Second, if you're doing it primarily to make H jealous forget it. It won't work and it's not fair to the OP. If you are ready then fine. Establish the right boundaries, be respectful to yourself and OP and go out. Enjoy some life. You have every right to do so. Taking care of you makes you a better Mom for kids.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
