SSGA, Sorry you are here but it is the place to be for what you are living thru. This is good that you can think right now.
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the logic behind it appears to be spot on.


You are going to hear things that sound counter-intuitive and you will object to the advice. Have a open mind, pray for discernment and think before you act.

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based on a male 14 year old mentality. I mean, do we really ever grow up?)


Even though she laughed this isn't attractive. She wants you to be grown-up, responsible yet spontaneous, in control yet passionate, decisive but turn to her for input. Confusing to a guy but what a man does. Take care of business.

Read others that you can relate to and post on their threads to get input back. Read from the women's perpsective here. The community here is great, very supportive, quick with a hand and quicker with 2x4s. GIMA is a good DBer to have in your corner. You can handle it.

Cheers
Coach


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.