I recall GIMA's posts with some of your Sitch, GIMA has been a big help for a lot of people.
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In some of GIMA's posts I am referred to as "K." The person whose WAW is also friends with GIMA's WAW. When I finally called him for support and help, I was blown away in learning about the WAW, the script, well everything. The problem was that I was 45 days into it and I had made all of the newbie mistakes of pursuit, snooping etc... If I had only known then what I know now. Boy, I bet that has been said a million times here..
We all make mistakes, have made mistakes, and will make more mistakes, but try not to dwell on them. Acknowledge them, and then move forward.
Your starting on the only path you have, working on GAL, detachment, etc, all that you mentioned.
Spend some time reading up on this forum, and other people's sitch's. You'll be surprised where you find similarities to your own sitch, and some great advice, even when not directed straight at your sitch.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."