Bagheera:

You said:
"Safe, as in -- he can't do anything sexual *here*!"

Exactly. She doesn't have to worry about a thing.


You said:
"Plus that, at church, you're a bit of a 'trophy husband'"

Conveying the APPEARANCE of a happy marriage is much more important to her than actually BEING happily married.


me: 50
w (waw): 45
daughter: 9
m: 16
t: 19
bomb: 9/26/08
status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R

my story