Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

My kids are and will always come before my M. My dilemma is that my S8 asked me not to tell H what he told me because H told him he would be punished. I don't even know what I will accomplish by telling H I know he has been saying things. H can be very indignant; it won't change anything except maybe make H's behavior worse.

I love my H. I have been with him more than half my life. I would love for our M to improve so I can grow old with him. BUT I CANNOT allow him to continue to disrespect me to my boys and constantly accuse me of things I haven't done. I am beginning to think I have hit a wall. I don't want to leave my M, but I don't want to be in this sitch any longer. It is not good for me and it isn't good for my boys.